410. You Can’t Have It All

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Poet Raquel Franco shares a poem from her new collection of poems, I’ll Cry If I Want To which comes out January 21 and is available for pre-order. You can follow Raquel on Instagram at raquelfranco.poet

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If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be!

But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll.

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Raquel Franco:  hi, my name is Raquel Franco and it’s going to be okay. I am a poet and author who writes about life’s rainy days and small joys in order to instill hope. Today I’m going to read a poem from my forthcoming poetry collection. I’ll Cry If I Want To.  This poetry collection is about motherhood, womanhood, marriage, mental health, grief, and more. It is available now for pre order and wherever books are sold and released on January 21st. 

 

The title of this poem is You Can’t Have It All after Barbara Ross.  

 

But you can have strawberries, red like rubies, fat enough to take up all the space in your cheek. You can have swing sets waiting for your legs, which grew up way too fast, to pump in and out like a child’s full on joy.  You can have memories of your grandmother’s hands sifting through the cupboards to find you something to eat, even though you said you weren’t hungry,  eager to make sure you were never empty of anything. 

 

You can have a double rainbow appear on a random day in April and wonder about the hands of God.  You can have summer, the season most likely to keep its word. Keep your skin tender and sweating and craving mama’s cold iced tea to press against your neck.  You can have hope, tie it to your tongue, thread it with the veins of your pumping heart, let it keep you afloat through life’s sticks and stones.

 

You can’t have it all, but there are many things left for your hands to hold on to.

Poet Raquel Franco shares a poem from her new collection of poems, I’ll Cry If I Want To which comes out January 21 and is available for pre-order. You can follow Raquel on Instagram at raquelfranco.poet

About It's Going to Be OK

If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be!

But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll.

Find Nora’s weekly newsletter here! Also, check out Nora on YouTube.

Share your OK thing at 502-388-6529‬ or by emailing a note or voice memo to [email protected]. Start your message with “I’m (name) and it’s going to be okay.”

“It’s Going To Be OK” is brought to you by The Hartford. The Hartford is a leading insurance provider that connects people and technology for better employee benefits.  Learn more at www.thehartford.com/benefits.

The IGTBO team is Nora McInerny, Claire McInerny, Marcel Malekebu, Amanda Romani and Grace Barry.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcripts may not appear in their final version and are subject to change.


Raquel Franco:  hi, my name is Raquel Franco and it’s going to be okay. I am a poet and author who writes about life’s rainy days and small joys in order to instill hope. Today I’m going to read a poem from my forthcoming poetry collection. I’ll Cry If I Want To.  This poetry collection is about motherhood, womanhood, marriage, mental health, grief, and more. It is available now for pre order and wherever books are sold and released on January 21st. 

 

The title of this poem is You Can’t Have It All after Barbara Ross.  

 

But you can have strawberries, red like rubies, fat enough to take up all the space in your cheek. You can have swing sets waiting for your legs, which grew up way too fast, to pump in and out like a child’s full on joy.  You can have memories of your grandmother’s hands sifting through the cupboards to find you something to eat, even though you said you weren’t hungry,  eager to make sure you were never empty of anything. 

 

You can have a double rainbow appear on a random day in April and wonder about the hands of God.  You can have summer, the season most likely to keep its word. Keep your skin tender and sweating and craving mama’s cold iced tea to press against your neck.  You can have hope, tie it to your tongue, thread it with the veins of your pumping heart, let it keep you afloat through life’s sticks and stones.

 

You can’t have it all, but there are many things left for your hands to hold on to.

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